An
Introduction to the Course
The Matter of Counsel
Probably some modern
counselling would not agree wholly with the biblical idea
of counselling. Much of modern counselling is not the giving
of advice, and some of it is not directive, though it seeks
to stimulate the counsellee to come to personal understanding
of himself—with a view to useful personal decisions
and actions. For the purposes of our course counselling
is that action which incorporates sympathy, understanding,
discernment and perception by means of which it can bring
comfort and aid—where possible—through the
means of the biblical wisdom pertaining to the nature of
God, man, creation, redemption and the ultimate glorification
of all things. It is wisdom which takes into account the
glory and sinfulness of man, which employs love, but does
not hesitate to confront man with his accountability as
a moral creature, present him with his responsibility for
his actions—as against the prevalent doctrine that
man is a victim, needing only to be pitied and aided. Such
counselling informs man of the grace and love of God which
can lead him to full rehabilitation and dignity as a moral
creature, and give him great hope for an assured future.
In giving this description
of biblical counselling we are not being critical of counselling
which is not biblical.
The Matter of Comfort
Comfort is a rich word.
It speaks of serenity, security, personal assurance, well-being
in life, relief from tension and pressure, release from
a sense of oppression and domination by other persons,
events and elements. It speaks of good relationships with
God, man, one’s self, and one’s world. A mother
comforts her child. God comforts Israel. Christ comforts
his people. The Holy Spirit is called ‘the Comforter’ in
some Bible translations, and this very word actually means ‘Counsellor’.
Thus true counselling brings comfort—given in that
the counsellee can accept what will be helpful for him.
In all our studies we
will assume the limited wisdom of us as persons, our inability
to be ‘Fixit persons’, and yet assume the wisdom
of God in His word, His gifts of wisdom at points of need,
and His presence with us as we seek to love, understand
and discern the needs of others. |